Had a bad run of luck, but check out this news story of a female kiter.

http://www.ybw.com/auto/newsdesk/20081111130755ymnews.html

think she needs one of these :-

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=cr2MzMzTXoE&feature=PlayList&p=181A0C3CE8EDD244&playnext=1&index=33

finally a kite for me in 20 knts